@PeachyGreen said in Disowned but Not Disheartened! Vol. 2 Discussion!:
Imagine: a teenage hetero male comes across an attractive girl who shows a great amount of interest in him and later proposes. Then she follows him around. His family is trying to set him up with the girl. Is it still as icky as before? How likely is it that the teenage boy falls for the girl in this situation?
The story is just that, except gender reversed
I'm a bit late in responding here, but if you excise the "family trying to set them up" bit, you've described both the Twilight and Fifty Shades series, both of which were written by authors who (at time of writing this sentence) identify as female. I'll also note that even if you adjust your hypothetical story to "comes across an attractive older girl/woman", the Twilight/Fifty Shades statement would still hold true.
So I think it's a bit much to say that this story is "a female MC written from the gendered expectations of a male MC/guy trying his best to write a female-centric romance novel".